Reasons Not to Ask a Girl Out
You see a girl you like, you think she will be compatible with you, and you want to know if you could go ahead and ask her out. If you are in such a condition, then I suggest you read this article before proceeding to ask her out.
The purpose of this article is to educate you to know when not to ask her out, reasons not to ask. This will help you stand a chance of getting a good girl and being in a good and healthy relationship with her.
When Not to Ask Her Out
1. If She Is Not Into You
One of the mistakes many young men make when it comes to asking women out and getting a positive reply is not knowing if she is interested or not before making the move.
I don’t see any reason to waste your time on a woman who is not showing any signs of interest in you.
When a woman is interested in you, the signs will be there; you don’t even need a soothsayer to tell you she is into you. I have an article about signs a girl is interested in you; check it out.
2. If She Is Insolent
The fact is, nobody desires an insolent person as a partner, be it dating, marriage, work, or anything. So before you make that move on that girl, first observe her behavior towards others.
If she is the insulting type or the type that talks to people anyhow she wants, then don’t ask her out because you might end up regretting it.
The worst mistake any guy could make is to ask a mannerless woman out. You might either be insulted by her instantly or be repeatedly insulted in such a relationship. So don’t ask her out.
3. If She Is Selfish
Selfishness is one of the things that ruin relationships in this generation. Naturally, a good relationship should not be one-sided; the man and the woman are partners and should act as one. This means putting resources, efforts, etc., together to grow more.
So guys, that lady you want to ask to be your girlfriend—have you assessed her thoroughly and found out that she is not the self-centered type?
Engage with her first, monitor her behavior before making that bold move. If you find out that she is selfish, then that’s a good reason not to go ahead and ask her out, or you may regret such a relationship.
4. Her Family Background
Family or background is one of the vital things men overlook when entering into a new relationship. This is not good.
Family background has a major role to play in her life because it determines how she was raised, what she believes in, and many other things about her. So, overlooking it is a mistake.
So young man, if you discover that the girl you are making advances on is from a notorious family or a family with a bad image, well, I might have to ask you to reconsider the idea of asking her out because that relationship might not favor you, maybe in the long run.
5. Infidelity
As a man, one of the worst mistakes you could make is to date a woman who cheats.
When I mentioned her family background, this is one of the bad effects of a poor family background because it influences the children so much. For instance, in a family where the parents are always cheating on each other, there is every possibility that the children might learn from them and see it as a normal thing, so dating from such a family could be a disaster waiting to strike.
So, if you notice that the girl you want to date is the type that everyone could get hold of in the streets, then don’t ask her out or you will regret it.
6. If She Lies a Lot
Personally, I don’t see the need to be in a relationship with a liar. I mean, why should you?
A relationship has to do with trust, obedience, and faithfulness, but in a case where your partner is not straightforward, it is very bad.
Before asking her to be your girlfriend, first relate with her very well. In fact, be her casual friend, observe her stories, and make her repeat those stories. By so doing, you will be able to figure out if she is consistent with her storylines or not. That’s one of the easiest ways to figure out a liar.
If she is not straightforward, don’t even think of making that bold move because you won’t enjoy being in a relationship with a liar, trust me.