How to Calm Her Ego Through Text or Text Quotes
All of us are built differently with our unique behaviors; some are very gentle, some are naturally arrogant, etc. Despite being different in behavior, all of us deserve love.
If you have an egoistic girlfriend or wife, and you are getting fed up with her pride, relax; this article is for you. Here is how to calm her ego down and live happily with her.
The truth is, some people are naturally arrogant and full of pride; this shouldn’t bring an issue into a relationship. If you love her and you are sure she loves you, learn this to calm her egoistic nature.
1. Be the First to Text Her
Yes, we know she has pride and won’t want to be the first to initiate a conversation when you guys have a misunderstanding. I mean, that’s what arrogant people do, right?
Just be the first to text her; tell her you have forgiven her for the quarrel and tell her some sweet words about what she means to you and how you desire her.
After the text, drop your device and wait for her calls and texts. She is very likely to be the one calling and petting you, not you anymore.
By initiating the first conversation and being sweet to her, you have aroused her emotions towards you, and all the so-called pride will disappear involuntarily at that moment, and she might be smiling involuntarily.
Note: This only applies if she loves you and is really into you. If she is not into you, this may not work.
2. Tease Her via Text Message
Teasing women is very normal because it makes them laugh and feel relaxed. Doing so sometimes with your woman won’t hurt.
Let’s say, for instance, she is the type that always wants you to be the first to call or text. Here is how to calm that pride and make her relax or laugh.
Text her and tell her you now have peace throughout today that you haven’t spoken with that bag of trouble. Say this as a joke with laughing emojis and funny remarks.
If she is really into you, she will get the joke and will blush or smile. She may call or text you to tease you back.
3. Be Calm and Unconcerned
There are some ladies who think the world revolves around them, probably because they’ve got nice shapes and looks, and some of them go around teasing and tempting their men by telling them how other guys are dying to get them.
As a man, this is the right moment to be calm and relaxed. Don’t feed that ego of hers but calm it by simply feeling unconcerned.
She simply wants to know if you are scared to lose her. Don’t let her know; instead, do this.
Just text her back, saying, “Wow! That’s good, since you have many potential suitors in your street, you should accept all of them.” Use a funny emoji too. She will laugh and might change the topic.
What you just told her is that you aren’t afraid to lose her, and once she understands that, her ego will calm down.
4. Discuss Heart to Heart with Her
This could either take place physically, I mean, face-to-face talk, calls, or via text.
Sit her down, talk to her calmly, tell her what you don’t like about her and her pride, explain how it is affecting you, and how it is affecting your relationship negatively. Make her feel emotional. Hold her hand and look deep into her eyes while pouring out your heart to her.
Her heart will melt with emotions for you. After this, expect a very gentle and humble version of her.
5. Ignore Her and Withdraw
This is the last measure if her pride is uncontrollable. When you seem to have utilized all your tactics to calm her ego and none worked, just withdraw your commitment.
The fact is, a woman won’t change for you if she doesn’t love you, so there is no point in trying.
But if she does love you, but her pride is just too much to calm, then withdraw your commitment to her and move on.
Trust me, she doesn’t want to lose you despite her egoistic nature. Once she feels that deafening silence for a while, she won’t be able to take it anymore because she will miss you so much that she will be the first to start looking for ways to get to you and have you back at all costs, including trashing her own pride and changing totally for you just to have you back.
This is how to deal with an egoistic partner and have them change and submit to you totally.
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