How to Know When to Ask a Girl Out
You met a girl, and you have been talking with her for a while. You started developing feelings for her, but you are a bit confused about whether to proceed with asking her out or wait a bit.
If this is the kind of situation you are in now, this article will help enlighten you about the exact signs you will see in a girl and proceed to ask her out immediately.
Before we proceed, first, you must know that a large percentage of girls don’t know how to hide their emotions when they like guys. You will see those signs all over her. So, in this article, I will tell you those signs you will see in her and know that you will likely get a “Yes” answer if you ask her out.
1. She Is Flirting with You
Let me tell you this, girls and women, in general, don’t flirt with random guys or men they meet out there. At least, the majority of women don’t do that unless they are attracted to you.
What I am trying to say here is this: for instance, you met a girl, you probably started talking and meeting, and she is all over you, touching you for no good reason while in conversations.
That is a good clue that she is really into you and is involuntarily flirting with you.
So, if you are asking, “How to know when to ask a girl out,” then here is one of the greatest green lights. Just proceed with it if she is flirting with you, and you will likely get positive feedback from her.
2. Laughs a Lot at Your Jokes
Once a girl is into you, she will be naturally happy whenever she is around you. This means that she will naturally react happily to even the slightest things you say, whether they are funny jokes or not.
She will just be excited whenever you are around her. Some will even be smiling involuntarily once they set their eyes on you.
3. Looks at You So Often
A girl that likes you will likely be looking at you whenever she sees you.
Don’t misunderstand me; I know many girls out there are shy to maintain eye contact with guys they really like. This doesn’t mean she won’t still be looking at you.
You may probably not notice this because if she is shy, she won’t let you catch her staring at you, because if you do, she will probably look away but would still be looking, only more carefully and quickly, so that you don’t catch her again.
If she does this, then it is a good sign she is in for it. Call her and tell her your mind. If she is the shy type, it’s best to approach her in less crowded places so that she will be comfortable while talking to you.
4. Acts Jealous Around You
If she likes you, she will probably act jealous whenever she sees you with another girl.
How do you know this? If this is a girl you normally talk to sometimes or exchange greetings with, she would stop talking to you and start giving you attitude immediately after she sees you with another girl.
Confront her and ask her out. Trust me, she will accept because women hardly feel jealous of you if they don’t like you.
5. She Is Kind to You
If she is kind to you, then that’s a green light she is admiring you.
What I mean by being kind to you is getting out of her way to do things for you—for instance, helping you out with some minor things in the house, buying you gifts, giving you food sometimes, etc.
How Soon Is Too Soon to Ask a Girl Out?
I believe you have learned “How to know when to ask a girl out” above. Let’s proceed with the question, “How soon is too soon to ask her out?”
Let’s say you met a girl and you have already started having a serious crush on her, but you don’t know if it’s too early to make the bold move yet. This article is for you.
There is no right or wrong time to ask a girl out. You can meet a girl today, ask her out, and get a positive reply.
What I am trying to explain here is this: there is nothing like “How soon is too soon to ask a girl out.” You can do it immediately you meet her or even after three months, six months, or years later, depending on when you gather up the courage to or when you think you are ready to.
You can ask her out anytime, but it’s best to do it when she starts giving you the green light, as I explained above in this article, so that you stand a higher chance of getting a “Yes” answer.
Should I Ask a Girl Out Over Text or in Person?
If you are among those asking this question or wondering which one is best, well, I have only one short answer for you.
It doesn’t matter if you ask her out over text or in person.
Both are good; what matters is making the move by asking her out. Although there are some advantages to asking her out in person rather than over text
Advantages like triggering her emotions with your presence alone, looking deep into her eyes, overwhelming her emotions, and holding her hands while talking to her.
All I am trying to say is, being present face to face with her will trigger her emotions more to fall for you than chatting with her over text. So, I will definitely choose asking her out in person.